Slave To Our Own Ideology

Just see a Mother who is feeding her kid. She will do all sorts of hard work, just to make her kid eats. But this type of doubly effort is not seen in other animals.  Mother feels happy once she is done with her job. Then turns to her next task.

We have set many targets for our self. We will not feel comfortable until we complete that task with the perfection we are up to. This expectation not only confined to our own actions but also it extends to our near and dear one's.

House should look like this, I should earn x amount. My daughter should be doing Y job. I should finish my office tasks by 7. I should reach home by 8:30 PM. I will not talk to my old boss. My wife should talk to me this way. My brother in law should receive me in certain manner and etc etc. Something goes wrong in any of our defined or desired tasks we go mad.

It seems we have created a boundary and we live in that. Any thing outside that thought process does not fit in to our minds. If you see little carefully, we have built golden cage around us and never realised. Means we are the slaves to our own thinking.

 

Researvring The Result

You are preparing for your first business meeting. Many things are there in pipeline. Presentation, Material preparation, Dress Code, Time Management, Mind set, Attitude, FAQ,s, Revising the important points, Many more to go .. but the preparation still incomplete. You have small fear in your heart, whether will I win the deal? Will I satisfy the people? will I win over the competition?

Even you check the preparation thousand times, still some gaps or failures are expected. This exercises is to make sure that we WIN. WIN, what is it? Is it winning the deal, or executing it successfully, or again winning next deal? It is simply infinite.

Each time, every time things are new, issues are different, and but the goal is same that is WIN.

Each time we go through this labour pain. All these above activities drain us when we are focusing on result than our being. Result is something we don't know and where to stop as it is infinite. But being truthful to our self and handling the above activities of preparation gently and with care and love will make disappear the whole drama, and pain we go through in the daily life.

Just be natural and life is infinite.

 

Being In The Present

We have always seen our self in Past, Present and Future. We see our past and work in the present for the results in future. This helps us to reduce the mistakes of the past and to create better future.

This is our general understanding and whole world believes this and lives this and breaths this.

This past has created some sort of burden on us. It has also put some pressure to be better in future. This is the biggest issue what world, people are facing.

Actually speaking .... what is past? as a time frame 8'o clock is past if I stand in any time after 8. What ever we did in the earlier period, will be counted in the past. Brain takes is a memory. If that was not tasting good then it will find next alternative ways to feel better. Again as time passes we progress to future. New past is added.

If we consider this journey is unique and only one then where is the past. there is no comparison at all.  we are always in the present.

Each stages of life are experienced once and only once in life time. And that moment is unique. Even if I try to do some correction ... it will be only a correction. First marriage, First child, First love, First failure, Second job, 3rd home all are unique. Nothing is past and nothing is future. All just happening.

I am writing because it might help some to reduce the past burden and live life smiling.

Purpose of Life Is Devine

              If you are struggling to understand the purpose of your life, then you can be rest assured that your search has reached logical stop here. It is not the question which is making you restless, it is the dissatisfaction, disinterest and monotonous of the daily life which you are living, generates this search. You are just a couple of steps away from knowing "What is the purpose of my life?".

             This question has been generated in your mind as a result of you blocking yourself from doing what you love or you feeling that nothing much interesting to or worth doing. Lets take imagine that you have no constraints in life and also have 1 million Dollar in hand. In this condition what you would like to do? Doing what you love?, then please write down what would like to do?

             Going on a vacation, taking adventure sports, Serving humanity, Being writer ....write what it inspires you.

              Purpose of life has happened to you already. It has already associated with some noises which are constraints in this case. To strengthen purpose of the life, you have to declare to the world about something you love to do. Love means by taking that task you should feel like jumping out your bed and see seamless ideas popping from your head. You also see all the obstacles coming in your way as a stepping stone to ultimate freedom.

But what ever you do in your daily life, the feeling dissatisfaction continues. You start experiencing lack of interest and motivation. You are not sure what is the purpose of your life. You are wondering aimlessly searching for unique calling. Then you will try different paths. Either changing your job, or changing the role you are playing in the organization. Start learning music or being coach to some voluntary organizations. But believe nothing works. Mind is unsettled and restless.

You can try any task, any work but the spark is missing in it. After couple of sessions, lethargy, boredom and disinterest occupy the mind. This state is quite natural. The sudden lethargy indicate over straining of ourselves... this might also happen.

This indicates still you are not there yet. It is like tiger in the body of CAT. Feeling limited in happiness, satisfaction and accomplishments.

But the above state can be overcome by Bach Flower Remedy "WILD OAT". By taking 2 pills (One Doze) 3 times per day and for 3 months period. 

This will help us experience those challenges uniquely suited our self and bringing joy, spark and life. Based on your current condition you can also take Bach Flower Remedy "HOLLY and IMPATIENCE".

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